How are you doing on your new journey into a new life? You know that weight loss, if it is to be life long, must be more than a diet. It isn’t a temporary thing. Diets, on the whole, are bound to end in failure. Diets are generally something one cannot stand for very long and so after a short stint of gagging down over-salted low fat frozen dinners, low fat cottage cheese, sugar free candy, butter-less green beans, low fat thousand island dressing on a salad of iceberg lettuce…
We QUIT! Arrrrgh.
No, diets on the whole are not designed to help you do what you really need to do and that is be part of a new approach to life. If I would lose weight I will have to grow up and realize several things: It’s time to be as tough on me as I am on my kids, telling myself, “no, one cookie is enough”. Telling me to drink more water. Exercise even though I don’t feel like it. It is time to take responsibility for my choices in life.
I know I talked about this recently but I have to reiterate that a real weight loss diet one that is meant to help you really lose weight and keep it off is just training ground for a new life – diet only be part of it.
Many weight loss experts are beginning to call this by a better term: weight management or lifestyle management. After all, weight loss is really just a benefit of making better eating choices, adding an exercise habit, choosing a more active part in your own life instead of just going with the flow, listlessly absorbing TV ads for food forms, carelessly buying stuff at the store.
Weight gain is the result of many factors, many of which are a result of poor early education on what to eat, how MUCH to eat, when to eat, whether to and how much exercise, among other things.
If you are like me, you just ate what was there in front of you because Mama said so. Then when you got a little freedom and some money in your pocket you spent it on what, broccoli and carrots? No, I wager it was the biggest candy bar you could afford. I did that and some kite string.
So, today I want to reinforce at least one of my new habits. Eat smaller meals more often. That is my biggest new habit: to eat more often. Too many years of skimpy snacks and evening binges to overcome. I have a hard time remembering to eat before noon. So, I need to make it part of my day to eat.
What about you? What is your biggest new habit to make (hardest old habit to break)? Make notes to yourself. Tie the old string around the finger. Do whatever it takes to keep that new habit in the foreground till it is part of your day.
Got to go…I need to eat!